I just need to get this out of my system

COULD YOU BE ANYMORE NEGATIVE?!?!?!

You aren't even 20 yet, don't say that you will spend your whole life alone
or that you could die in 6 months and never have been in love

that is such bull shit

you could die at anytime (I don't want you to but it is possible)

if you set yourself up by saying shit like that it won't happen

IT'S PSYCHOLOGY!!!!!!!

I love you to death but damn it,
you are not a dried up old lady
you are prettier than you think you are

you are just hellbent on being cripplingly shy
and really only you can change that
and if you want to change it you need to make an effort to meet new people
I know I don't do that
but I don't try to.
so focusing on the negative in your life won't fucking help
and it really scares me when you say shit like "I have all these plans and I am going to have to do them all alone."
I say "well no, you have friends. just because there isn't anyone right now doesnt mean there never will be"
you say "No. I know there never will be."

YOU CAN'T CONTROL THAT!
You say that you are optimistic
no
this
I can't think when you talk like that
because you will never be alone.
You have friends and family that love you
you dont have a LOVER
So what.
Sometime you will
and this will seem like a joke.

You are worth far more than you think you are
and just because you aren't in a romantic relationship that doesn't mean you never will be.

So really,
stop dwelling on this one aspect of life
you either need to try harder, or just go with the flow
but please
don't close your heart off to love
because really, that is what you are doing, and the fact that you won't listen to what anyone has to say is not helping.

UGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No matter where I am
who I am with
what I am doing

I can't get anything done
because I am distracted by my own thoughts
my own feeble pondering's

It is really becoming a problem
but how do I get out of my own head?

Sometimes
I just can not compose my thoughts
and I just bite my lip
until it is rubbed raw
and I wonder if you ever think of me
and I just
bite
bite
BITE
my fucking lip
until it bleeds and I can taste the iron in my mouth

Sometimes
I sit here
and leave the air conditioning on
until I shiver
so that I can curl up in a sweater
and remember what it’s like to feel comfortable

but then
I just bite my fucking lip
and think about what I want to be
but what I really want is
to stop biting my lip.

Sometimes
while I chew on my bottom lip
I think
“a mouth is one hell of a thing to let go to waste…”
but instead of speaking my mind
I sit quietly
and nibble away.

sometimes
bite
sometimes
bite
sometimes
bite

SOMETIMES
BITE

Because sometimes
I wish
I could bite my own fucking head off.
instead of just the lip.